today is valentine's day.. so HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to one and all...

before i was attached, valentine's day to me was more of friendship day.. spent it with single friends, close friends, best friend.

when i was attached, valentine's day was a normal day to me. he was always away working, so we made a pact to disregard any special occasions like xmas day, new yr day, and of course, valentine's day.

after i was attached, i.e. when i'm back to being single, i felt a bit lost. this is the 2nd valentine's day after my relationship with my ex, and still i'm lost. main reason is: i'm still single.

last yr i was away working.. so it felt like any other normal working day.. away from home, away from friends, away from life. this yr i'm around in sg, with majority of my friends attached, or have plans.. makes me feel a bit sad that i'm single.

ironically, i really enjoy singlehood.. i like to be able to stay out late, to be able to hang out with friends i wanna hang out with, to be able to concentrate on being with my friends when i'm out.. i like to be able to make friends with who i want to, and i like to hang out with people that makes me happy.

so to count my blessings, as long as i have people around me to keep me company and walk me through my single life, and make me happy with their company, i believe i should be able to tide through singlehood and handle this complicated feeling that keeps lingering in me almost every other day..

to all lovers in the world, treasure wad u have..

to all singles in the world, treasure wad u have as well..

whether or not u are single or attached, there are its pros and cons, ups and downs. and so, i believe,

all things happen for a reason.. cheers.