"Most people don't marry the loves of their lives. You marry for compatibility; for friendship. It may not be a kind of relationship where you can read each others minds, but its comfortable, like a familiar warm spot on your favorite chair. That's just another kind of love, one that doesn't burn itself out, one that lasts in the real world."

"Songs of the Humpback Whale" - Jodi Picoult


so is it true? one that will last in the real world? the love of my life... compatibility... not reading each other's minds.. comfortable... love... all so familiar...

i'm scared.

" most men lie to make themselves feel better... most women lie to make others feel better.."

is it true? if it is, i admit. i lie. very often in fact.

i'm sorry.

i'm just trying to make everyone happy..